My Pelvic Floor And Our Move To The 12th Floor

I’m meant to be packing up our apartment in Dengue Villas today. It’s hardly a big deal as we are not actually moving out of the building, merely up 7 floors. To look at the place though you’d think it was. Empty packing boxes are strewn around the sitting room and piles and piles of books lie everywhere. Paintings, rolls of canvas, tubes of paints, brushes and endless empty jam jars litter every available surface, and heaps of clothes (most of which are unsuitable for hot climates or don’t fit anymore) are draped onto the back of chairs and sofas. It’s not looking promising at this stage but by lunchtime I mean to have some order in the place, I mean too, but I probably won’t.

Earlier this morning I went into the kitchen to check out the cupboards and remind myself of what exactly it was that I threw into the back of them 10 months ago and have since forgotten. As I opened the first cupboard (or rather the cupboard door unhinged itself and fell off into my arms) I found not one, not two, not three, but four cake tins. What on earth possessed me to bring four cakes tins out to Jakarta from London this time a year ago? I’ve never baked a cake in my life and I have absolutely no intention of starting now. I can only imagine that whilst packing up our London house I must have either (A) been very drunk, or (B) had some romantic notion that my new life in the Tropics would be spent entertaining ‘interesting’ bohemian and arty types that I’d pick up during my sojourn here and that my days would be spent wafting around in a cloud of flour and a halo of icing sugar producing perfect Victoria Sponges and Madeira cakes and entertaining the cream of Jakarta society at my infamous tea parties which would then carry on into the small hours. Well Fuck that! The nearest I’ve got to reaching those giddy social heights was an invitation to a Scottish country dancing evening back in April ( rapidly declined) and a gracious invitation from a matronly expat woman dressed in twin-set and pearls to ” a buffet supper, chez-moi” (also rapidly declined) Those cake tins are going straight into the trash and they are most certainly not going to be given a return ticket back to London whenever it is that we finally pack up and leave Indonesia.

It’s amazing how much crap you can accumulate in 10 months. I’m not pointing fingers or anything, but Irishman is definitely the main culprit here. He is the most terrible hoarder imaginable. I mean do I really, amongst a million other things that he’s secreted away into dark recesses of our flat, want to pack up the dried up, wizened Lizard that he found behind the curtains the other day? Or the hornet’s nest, obviously sans hornets, which he bought back from Bali under the pretext that he, might, one day draw it. Or the mountain of magazines picked up from airport transit lounges during our travels, or the various tribal masks, gas masks, toys, plastic guns and other useless paraphernalia that he can’t resist buying for his performance art. Talk about living with a magpie. No, talk about living with an artist.

When I’d had enough of probing through the kitchen cupboards, I decided to start on the bedroom. I opened one of the drawers and there hidden amongst the tangle of laddered 60 denier black tights, loose cotton buds, mis-matching pairs of gloves, odd socks and a saucy negligee that’s never seen the light of day, let alone a night of passion, was my Kegel8 Ultra pelvic floor exerciser (if you don’t know what it is, Google it right now) I bought one of these terrifying machines last year. I blame my dear friend Sophie. She showed me an article that had been written about them in The Observer magazine last spring one afternoon after we’d been walking our pack of dachshunds together on Hampstead Heath. At first it started as a joke, two friends having a laugh together, but then I started to get paranoid, no seriously, really paranoid that well you know…maybe I needed one. So I did, no, I mean I bought one. The neat little pocket sized appliance arrived just 48 hours later complete with full instructions and two sets of probes. I decided not to tell Irishman about my purchase and to see if, maybe after a few days (if I was really lucky), weeks (if not so lucky) or months (if things were so bad that only vaginal rejuvenation surgery might be the only option), that he might start to notice a difference. I never got further than day 2 before Irishman found out. I’d like to say it was because of its efficacy, but it wasn’t; instead something went horribly wrong with my plan. It was the evening and after dinner I decided to furtively insert probe and get on with some ironing (the instruction manual stated quite clearly that ‘ you can go about your daily tasks whilst using this device’ (or words to that effect) anyway Irishman, none the wiser, was in the sitting room watching TV. Suddenly out of the blue, I did a violent sneeze and the sodding thing which I’d put on full power (for even ‘faster results’)  got snarled up between my labia and the crotch of my jeans. I can only liken the pain to something akin of being stark naked, straddling an electric fence and bouncing up and down on it. I SCREAMED SO LOUDLY that he came flying into the kitchen and asked what was wrong. The Game was well and truly up.

So now we have cake tins for the trash, a thrice used battery operated pelvic floor exerciser for the trash, possibly a wizened up lizard for the trash and, guess what?

Lunchtime has been and gone. Told you that I wouldn’t be sorted.

20 thoughts on “My Pelvic Floor And Our Move To The 12th Floor

    1. Thank you Sherry and I’m glad you enjoyed reading it. Just thinking of that moment is making me whince…..Still no further on with the packing but I’ve made some delicious chicken soup as a displacement activity and have had fun writing todays post! 🙂


  1. Lottie,

    OMG…this is the second post in a row i just didn’t see it coming….lol. I got to the line about the electric fence and you made snort while I was laughing so hard. I wonder if that pain could be equal to a man zipping up their pants to fast and the zipper getting caught in just the wrong place (I will neither confirm or deny anything but I will say this is the time pain that will take a man to the floor from his own zipper and stupidity!)

    Hope you have a little more success in the afternoon moving experience… 🙂



    1. Sorry about the snort! The difference in the pain between the cock/foreskin/testicles being caught in the zip and the, cough, snort, cough again ….(you know damn well what i’m talking about part of a womans anatomy) being super charged by an eletronic device that is designed for internal use rather than external (as in vibrator)- I think must be worse because of the electricity involved? I’ve never got my parts stuck in a zip but if and when I do I shall email you immediately to report back to you the level of pain. Packing on hold……!!


  2. Lottie, this is such a hilarious post. I laughed out loud at a busy coffee shop and I think I’ve been chuckling ever since. Thanks for keeping us laughing! 🙂


  3. Are we sure that the Kegel8 Ultra pelvic floor exerciser isn’t some form of chastity belt/torture device? Of course, I had to look it up and it doesn’t mention torture (or chastity) anywhere (that I could find) on the website; however, after reading your story, I have serious suspecions. I’m sure it was not funny at the time, but I’ll admit, you had me laughing out loud. Guess I’ll stick to working out my pelvic floor (what kind of name is that, anyway??? “floor,” really? Gives me visions of mops and polish) manually. Hah!

    I’ve moved a lot over years and as far as I’m concerned whether you’re moving two hundred miles or a couple of feet, moving is a pain in the ass. I once made a move in the same apartment complex and it was nearly more work than across town. Because of the distance from the old apartment to the new there was a lot more carrying boxes involved. As many times as I’ve moved, you’d think I’d be accustomed to the weird things I find while packing, but nope. It shocks me every time: empty shoe boxes (who knows where the shoes went), hundreds of buttons (which would be fine if I sewed, but I don’t), bits of string (too short to be of any use), socks without mates (was I hoping they’d come back home someday?), just to mention a few!

    As to your mysterious cake tins, Sis, I’ve been sitting here searching my brain for a logical explanation. Although you had me roaring with your reasons “(A)” and “(B)”, I do have a thought. Perhaps 10 months ago the Irishman stowed them in a box while you were sleeping? Maybe he was foreseeing a project made with dead lizards, plastic guns, toy masks, hornet’s nests, and cake tins. Yes. That must be it.

    Loved this post, Lottie. The laughter came at just the right time. xoxo

    P.S. You are a writer. An engaging, descriptive, and wonderful writer.


  4. Pelvic floor is the most dreadful word and I agree, buckets and mops and polish always spring to mind. Imagine likening a part of our anatomy to something that gets trampled and walked over? – and then of course what about dealing with a dirty floor? or indeed having a dirty floor? or please don’t walk your dirty feet all over my nice clean floor….. I can feel a whole load of new chat up lines coming – I’m not going to write them down because already the 3 that spring to mind are extremely rude and very vulgar – and of course I am not.

    But I digress from your wonderful comment, and your bitter experiences of moving. I have a feeling that moving up will be a bit like you moving round the block. A lot of carrying of boxes, bashing into closing lift-doors and much more trouble than hiring a van and paying someone strong to help.

    I’m glad I made you laugh Sis and if I made you pee in your pants because of a dogdy pelvic floor, then all the better!

    You kind words mean A LOT, thank you xoxo


  5. It was truly entertaining to my mind in your experience. So glad men dont have to use that kind of thing.. then again there are things out there that are tried because we are “the Man” as an attempt to make themselves think they are going be more useful in a department never working so I dont want to go into those kind of things.
    I loved your blog. I think I lost 10ccs of myself onto the chair from laughing!
    Thank you for the love of Laughter Lottie.


    1. My pleasure, Lobo. I’m so glad that you enjoyed reading about my horrific experience. I promise you, it was one of THE most painful experiences of my life. I’ve ditched the wretched thing, couldn’t be doing with it! 🙂


  6. Lord have mercy. A comment notification came up in my email and so I trotted on over to read the comment on your actual blog. I thought, “how strange that I missed this post.” Then I saw that it is from Aug. 2012.

    Anyhoo I read the post and I all but fell off my bed from laughing so hard. You can get into the craziest fixes and then write it all so well.

    I really hope all is well with your “female parts” and that you’ll not need surgery to correct. Women that have had multiple births have more of a problem. Lots of women have done the Kegel exercises with success.


    1. Yvonne, I am SO sorry, I meant to reply to your comment earlier and then totally forgot! Maybe it’s my memory I should be worrying about, not my pelvic floor!!! Don’t worry about my ‘bits’ they are fine 😉

      Hope all well with you xxx


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